But, and it’s a big but, I have always kept things I deem very special or personal, to myself. I’m the type that prefers to finish a project completely before sharing it with another person. I enjoy my own company. I tend to think before I speak, and very often I crave silence and solitude. …Introvert Status?
Can one be a mixture of both introvert and extrovert?
Anyhoo, I thought the book would be an interesting read!
The second book “Thinking fast and slow” by Daniel Kahneman was another that peaked my interest… I’m a big thinker, and any book or article about thinking is right up my street! I haven’t read much of it yet, but I will when I finish the first!
I also have instagram to go on (Obsessed!), stalk a few of my faves and post a pic or two! 😉
(I’m having a giveaway on mine so click here to find out more and enter!)
I would love to know, are you an introvert or extrovert? Or a mixture of both?
xxx
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Looks like a perfect evening! Very jealous! x
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Ooh that phone case is so cute! 🙂
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Very fun post!
Actually, I think I’m a mix too… I like company and share with people what’s on my mind and stuff like that. But I’m also kind of shy with strangers. And some other stuff make me wonder if I’m introvert. Good question, Shirley! 🙂
Love this, chill nights are the best 😉 xx
Ohh lovely!
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i like it!
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Both of those books look great reads, especially the second Shirley so thanks for sharing! I’m a really deep thinker so it sounds like my cup of tea! Also, I love your phone case!
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Ooo do you draw Shirley?
‘Quiet’is not a book I’d normally pick up but it does sound quite interesting. I would say I am more of an introvert than an extrovert… 🙂
Mo x
Ooh I think I will have to give Quiet a read, as it looks rather interesting.I adore your phone case it’s really cute 🙂
Have a lovely evening
Zoe x
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Cleopatra is such an excellent movie but I need to literally clear my schedule to fit in a watching of it! I still can’t believe that it lost money when it was released, what were the audience thinking!
Lovely Post, nice to read something from you! I’m def an Intro very shy but i think it’s better the older I get 🙂 I’m gonna read the book thank you shirley 🙂
Love this post.I am horrible introverted to the point were i find it hard to keep friends around because they dont understand my constant need to be alone. I hate it when people take it soooo personal.
I am definitely an introvert so i have to look for both books to see if they are here in Australia
xo Stephanie
Your quiet time looks so peaceful and relaxing. 🙂
And as for figuring out if you’re and introvert or extrovert, I know there’s a certain test out there that goes pretty deep into whether or not you’re an introvert or extrovert. Not really sure the name of the test, but the results look like: ENFP, INSJ, etc. It’s pretty detailed!
Anyway, I’m pretty much an introvert with random bouts of extrovert-ness.
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Lovely post. Love reading your blog posts. <3
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Definitely need to read that book
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I’ve just bought Thinking Fast and Slow it looks so interesting, I can’t wait to start it! I think I’m probably a mixture of both too. Before I started uni I was most definitely an introvert but I think over the past year i’ve definitely come out of my shell a lot more x
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I think I might be a mixture of both, but more of an introvert. I don’t really like meeting new people, and I love my own company. Seems like I’m more of an introvert 🙁 🙂
Sounds like a lovely evening! I’m definitely an introvert, I really want to read that book now 🙂 xx
I couldn’t identify with you more in regards to being a mixture of an introvert and extrovert. Some of the qualities you mentioned are exact ones I see in myself that also lead me to wonder if one can be a mixture!
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I feel like bright and vibrant colors like that floral blazer you have really suit you 🙂
I’m definitely an introverted person but I agree to think that being a blogger, I express things in an extroverted way. Maybe I’m a mixture of both.. I’d love to read that book actually 🙂 x
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I’ve had my eyes on “Quiet” for some time now as I am definitely an introvert. Thanks to your post I think i’ll grab a copy this weekend!
Oh and that phone case is adorable!
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I personally think that the more colorful an outfit is, the better! It’ll boost your mood instantly and it’s lots of fun mixing different colors and hues and seeing what works together.
About the book, I am definitely going to add it to my list! I love these kinds of reads. I believe I’m in between – just like you. As much as I love going out with friends and having fun, I also tend to make time for myself where I could finish projects alone and generally get some peace of mind.
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Looking for new books to read, might try those! 🙂
The colourful felt tips excite me the most, hah. I’m so sad 😉 <3
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I love colour so definitely add it! I love your rug look so cosy! Interesting books…might have a read…
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Would love to see you experiment with more colour, richer hues etc
Heard about that book – Quiet. As a proper introverteally looking forward to reading it!
I remember viewing a video of Susan Cain on YouTube, and I definitely plan on purchasing the book. As an aspiring attorney, I find myself to be an Introvert. However, I have read that Introverts do well in this field by virtue of the level of analysis and research required. I think persons are confused by Introverts and it is a shame because the world needs persons like myself. Introverts have a lot to offer.
love your blog and i’ve added you to my blogroll! would be absolutely great to have you guest post one day 🙂
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Great post 🙂
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Theres a term called centrovert, which describes a person with a mix of both introverted and extroverted tendencies. (I discovered this in a book i read recently by Devora Zack called ‘networking’). But personally Im not sure what I really am :s, i have my moments when I really need to be alone and other times were I really want to be sociable. Im not sure whether its possible for a person to be in absolutely one group. Which is why I question these personality groups?. Don’t we all really have the tendency to be in both groups depending on the people we are with, the moods we are in and just generally how comfortable we feel. I dno? maybe I’m wrong. I Just don’t think its possible to categorise people in one of just two groups, we are all so different . p.s interesting post tho, and I luv u shirley soo much xxxx
I think it is possible for a person to be a mixture of introvert and extrovert. I suppose it depends on the situation- i.e. knowing how to behave, when- and maybe on a person’s individual sense of… confidence? Something like that. Good question!
Now I have something to think about, and a few books to check out. 🙂
I love how you put everything so neatly, looks so good in the pictures, the pictures portray the neatness in your personality…
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your phone is so cute, hope u had a lovely evening. x
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I recntly found out about this and after reading and going through ur posts, I totally love it. Wnderful. Shirley I must also say thank you cause u bring out the modest in fashion and lifestyle but yet u never take away the classy feel. We look for such for days without find. Keep it up
I love the fact that u bring out so much class in simplicity and your blog is just a wonderful place to get that feel. I love your posts and I enjoy reading them
I’m definitely a mixture of both and your set up looks super comfy. xx
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I am definately an Ambivert. Although I think I am nearer to being Introverted as opposed to being Extroverted! I too am also thinking of adding more colour to my wardrobe as well as introducing more colours into my make-up routine. You know, it’s Summer and I think now is a great time to try out new things! 🙂
I love your pictures! It’s great to get a peek into your world! 😛
I think that I am a mixture of both. At times I can be loud and outgoing, but then I have times where I am into my own world. I think most people are a mixture of both…but then again I could be wrong!
–Ciara
Hi shirley 🙂 you are such an inspiration to so many young girls around the world. Speaking as one of those girls I just want to thank you for your insight on fashion and beauty. Most of all I want to thank you for letting your inner beauty shine through… you may not know this but you have given many of us the green light to love ourselves the way God created us……
To channel my obsession for fashion I started a blog but I think it’s lacking substance (?) or something else perhaps.. If you get a chance and can offer me any feedback I would truly appreciate it.
Thank you Shirley 🙂
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Looks like a good night in. I’m definitely a mix between the two personality types.
OMG this is SO uncanny but i literally purchased these exact two books, at the same time last month!! we have totally the same taste in reading which is awesome! you’ll enjoy it very much; they’re both excellent books!
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Looks like a great evening. I think someone can be both intro- and extroverted and I think it’d describe me as well. When people talk to me they think I’m a total extrovert when in all reality I enjoy my own space so much more! 😉
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looks like a pretty chill evening!
I am most certainly an introvert. Having time to myself is something I love and live for from time to time. I’m very much reserved about my feelings and things that are going on in my life. Now I want to find this book ha!
Seems like my kind of evening xx
Gorgeous post! I study psychology and its normal for people to be a fairly even mixture of extrovert and introvert traits! http://abigailalicex.blogspot.co.uk
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Hello Ms. Shirley,
After seeing your post on instagram of the book Quiet, I had to pick it up says the book-alcoholic. LOL I am still reading but this book speaks to my soul. I knew I was an introvert but I also have qualities of an extrovert. One passage really spoke my truth, ” Introverts feel just right with less stimulation, as when sipping wine with a close friend, solving a crossword puzzle, or reading a book….they prefer to devote their social energies to close friends but after a while wish they were home in pajamas.” Now I can show my family that there are others out there like me.
Ms.Shirley keep up the positive things you are doing. I’ll keep following!
-Desandra
It’s interesting. I actually took a slightly legitimate test and I was 100% introvert. But what I realized was I can be around big groups of people but still be in my own head, so the definition of introvert is quite jarring so it’s often seen as extreme but I believe introverts can exist in many capacities.
Lovely photos Shirley.
–kim
that clutch is to die for…love it!
I’m definitely a mixture of both. But I lean heavily towards being an introvert.
Actually Shirley, as you will discover from your a person can be equally introverted and extroverted – They’re called Ambiverts 🙂 I recently saw a TEDtalks lecture with Susan Cain on the subject. I’ve been dying to pick up her book. I hope you enjoy it!
Def introvert!!!!
Good reads, I recently started reading the book Quiet, seeing as though I’m for sure an introvert. I like knowing that there’s some significance in thinking, analyzing situations. I’ve always been more of an observer, but in recent years I’ve learned to open up more.
“Quiet” is one of those books I keep meaning to read but never get round to. It looks right up my street and I too appreciate the unique cover (I do graphic design so I was definitely swooning).
It’s funny how a lot of bloggers tend to be introverts in real life – that’s definitely the case for me!
Angi xx
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Hi Shirley!
I’m new to your blog and I just LOVE your style!
The term you are looking for is “Ambivert”.
I read about it in the book “To sell is human” by Daniel Pink. Check it out; it’s a goooood read!
Very good books. Great blog!
I love this blog!!!!! Chill Time is the best, I need to start reading Quiet and Thinking, Fast and Slow.
Thanking for sharing!!!
I’m a mixture of both.. I’m extroverted in the sense that… If you approach me we can have a good conversation and i tend to be loud and carefree around loved ones and close friends.. And introverted in the sense that you will never find me in a crowd and i don’t approach people first.. they would have to speak to me… Also at home I’m very quiet in my own space… thinking deeply all the time… I’m very analytical in thinking so I will be home quietly reflecting on past, present and future aspects of my life